Okay, here’s the crux of it
“WHY SHE LIKES IT SLOW
1 Just because a woman is wet, that doesn’t mean she’s near climax. A good rule of thumb: Take the amount of time you think she needs, and double it. If she’s ready sooner, you’ll know it.
2 Synchronicity is overrated. We girls don’t care when we have an orgasm–as long as we get one. The longer you stimulate us–and the slower you take things–the more likely that becomes.
3 Hell, sex is fun. You rush through the workday and always try to be efficient, but when it comes to play–any kind of play–make it count. She needs the break and pleasure as much as you do.”